What You Think People Think Matters More Than What They Think!

Let It Be Easy with Susie Moore

Susie Moore

Society & Culture, Philosophy, Health & Fitness, Self-improvement, Life Coach, Motivational, Personal Development, Mental Health, Life Coaching, Self-help, Education

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🗓️ 17 June 2025

⏱️ 6 minutes

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Fear of judgment can silently rob us of joy, energy, and authenticity. What if there was a simple mental shift that could restore all three? I'm sharing one of my most powerful personal practices - training my mind to assume people think positively of me. This isn't about inflating ego or ignoring genuine feedback. Rather, it's a profound recognition that what you believe others think matters far more than what they actually think. And, as a special bonus, I want to give you FREE access to m...

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0:00.0	Welcome to Let It Be Easy with Susie Moore.
0:09.7	I'd like to share with you one thing that I've trained my mind to do that I believe brings me a lot of ease, brings me a lot of my time back and allows me to really conserve my
0:22.8	energy and frankly just be happier, be in this place of joy and feeling good more.
0:29.4	It's this.
0:30.8	I assume that people's opinions of me are positive.
0:37.3	Think about this. What if what you think about what people think of you
0:43.6	is more important than what they actually think? Because realize this, you'll never actually know.
0:51.2	No matter what someone tells you, haven't you told someone they're great ever in your life and you're like, maybe they're not so great? Or maybe you've showed up somewhere and,
1:00.9	yeah, you know, you've gone along with something and you're like, actually, this sucks.
1:06.8	This happens with people all the time. We never know what they think. We never know what they're,
1:11.2	what they're feeling towards us. We can guess and we, you know, certainly yes, there are signs.
1:16.0	And I'm not talking about people close to you because the people close to you, hopefully
1:20.4	you feel safe and solid in their love of you and the reality, the closeness, the beauty of your relationships. I'm talking everybody else.
1:32.6	Those everybody else's that seems to get a lot of our attention. The people who we want to impress,
1:38.9	we want them to like us, we want them to think that we're cool, that we're smart, that we're
1:42.3	cute, fill in the blank, whatever matters to you. What if what you think about what they think is more important
1:49.0	than what they actually think? Here are a couple of reasons why that's wise. And to me,
1:53.3	why this is utterly true. Number one, you never know. You never ever know. Even, no matter what
1:59.5	someone says, what they comment, et cetera, et cetera, you still never really know. You never ever know. Even, no matter what someone says, what they comment,
2:00.9	et cetera, et cetera, you still never really know. And then secondly, unless you've given
2:07.0	somebody a reason, most people, I'm not even going to say like you, they just feel neutral.
2:12.3	They don't care. They're not thinking about you at all. And yet, so much of our emotional energy goes into impressing
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