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Hey guys, welcome back to We Met Arachni. I'm so excited for this episode today with Melissa

Wood, Tepper Berg. I want to call her Melissa Wood help because you know that's what I thought her name

was this whole time. But it's an amazing episode. She gave us so much. She was so open. She left

me with such positive energy. And that says a lot about a person like how they make you feel

when you're you know done speaking to them or after you hang out with somebody like that's a big

tell I think. And I'm just really excited. It's a long one. So we're going to do a very quick

solo answering a few of your questions and then get right into it. Somebody said I love if you

could talk about our answer next time your thoughts on why single men seem to be attracted to

taking women. Very curious about that. I mean, I think it's just because they're women that don't

need this man, this man rather and men are attracted to people who don't want them and what they

can't have. And when somebody's taken, they're basically saying like I don't need you. I don't

want you and men love a challenge. And so I will say though, I think the men that are attracted to

taking women says more about them and like they've got issues on their own. How to know when you're

ready to vacay with a guy. I think there's no too early to go away with someone and I say that

because you really get to know someone when you spend time away together. And even if you're not

official when you're going away, you know, even if it's a few weeks in, you really see if you

guys would be able to work long term. And if you wouldn't and I hear about a lot of relationships

ending after trips like that. So better to know earlier on. Do you have a podcast or tips on going

on a longer vacation with a new partner and how to not get sick of each other? I think if you're

worried about that, that's probably a red flag to begin with. I think you're really going to enjoy

your time together. But you also should have things that you're interested in like a great book.

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