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We Met At Acme

Stop Taking Relationship Advice From Your Friends ft. Estefania Pessoa

We Met At Acme

Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar

Education, Society & Culture, Relationships, Self-improvement

4.22.4K Ratings

🗓️ 31 January 2021

⏱️ 62 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, I virtually sit down with Estefania Vanegas Pessoa aka Hello Tefi. We discuss how we feel about being friends with exes, meeting her BF on tinder, men who fetishize, how important it is to be yourself upfront, men are not mind readers, relationship boundaries, Armie Hammer, where the line is when it comes to kinks, how to make

people feel comfortable opening up about their toxic relationship, and more. The episode starts with a solo where I discuss getting rid of the “all men suck” attitude, how to make your dating profile stand out, little fights I have with my partner, NY vs. Miami, Mercury going retrograde, and narcissists.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

The following podcast is a deer media production.

0:06.4

As Jay Z says, allow me to range to us myself for anybody who is listening to

0:13.6

We Met It Acme for the first time who may be found it from the last episode or the episode before.

0:19.6

My name is Lindsay Mezzelar. I'm from New York City. I started this podcast a little over three years ago

0:26.1

when I was hopelessly single and recently dumped on my birthday and just had a lot to learn when

0:33.2

I came to dating. Almost three and a half years later or yeah, I think it is three and a half.

0:38.8

I am in a really happy relationship living with my partner and by the way, still learning every day,

0:48.4

but I have learned a lot and I share it with my listeners on this journey in hopes that

0:55.8

they can take whatever they can out of it. A lot of my rules are not necessarily things that

1:03.8

I force upon people or tell people to do. They're just things that have worked for me

1:09.2

and that's really it. I am so grateful that you're here, that you're listening and I hope you

1:16.3

continue to do so because we talk about subjects that most people don't talk about, but everybody

1:21.7

wants to hear about what a month it has been and it's not even over yet. Well, I guess technically

1:28.4

this is the last day, but January is a long one. I will say it's been such a fun

1:35.4

January because we've had so many amazing guests and that continues today with Tuffy. She is

1:41.8

hysterical and just a breath of fresh air and I'm really excited for you to experience my

1:48.0

conversation with her. I feel like she was so real and so open and I have a feeling you're all

1:55.3

going to be huge fans of hers. But before we get started with Tuffy, I'm going to answer a few

2:01.2

of your questions that you had submitted and then we'll get right into it. Somebody said,

2:07.0

how to make your dating profile stand out. What do guys like to see? This is an interesting one.

2:16.8

I think for me, when I had a dating profile on multiple dating apps, it was really important

2:25.4

for me to show a sense of humor and a lightness about it. I would never have written anything

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