What Women Get Wrong About Men & How To Have Hard Conversations
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 6 May 2025
⏱️ 49 minutes
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Summary
I’m joined by Eli Weinstein, LCSW, therapist and host of The Dude Therapist Podcast, for real talk about what women often misunderstand about men, the pressure to be emotionally “on the same level” in relationships, and how to approach hard conversations with care. We also get into the overload of self-help content online, what to watch out for, and how to stay grounded in your growth—even if your partner isn’t quite there yet. Eli also answers some thoughtful listener questions about dating, sex, anxiety, and emotional connection.
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| 0:00.0 | This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation. |
| 0:06.5 | Ellie Weinstein, welcome to seeing other people. |
| 0:09.5 | Thanks for having me. |
| 0:10.6 | I'm super excited to be here. |
| 0:12.7 | Hopefully I don't get too seen. |
| 0:14.2 | You know, you don't see me that much. |
| 0:15.8 | Well, I am very excited to have you here. |
| 0:19.0 | I love conversations with therapists. And I specifically love talking to have you here. I love conversations with therapists and I specifically |
| 0:22.4 | love talking to a male therapist because you can give so many different opinions that all |
| 0:28.2 | of my female listeners need to hear and some are opinions based on being a male. Some are |
| 0:33.8 | opinions based on your actual expertise and insights. So you are the full package that is needed here on seeing other people. |
| 0:41.6 | And it's an honor to have you. |
| 0:43.7 | Well, thanks so much. |
| 0:44.5 | You know, when I was in grad school, I was like one of 30 people amongst four or 500 women, |
| 0:51.1 | you know, 30 men. |
| 0:51.9 | And we were like unicorns of the idea of mental health. |
| 0:55.8 | So it's nice to get, you know, the opportunity to share insight and have a great conversation |
| 1:02.3 | on relationships and anything and everything in between. Yeah. I have to shout out your |
| 1:07.0 | amazing podcast, a dude therapist before we get in. And guys, Ellie is a therapist, |
| 1:12.4 | author, relationship expert. Again, full package. What made you want to, you know, |
| 1:18.5 | explore this world of mental health and help people? |
| 1:31.7 | I always wanted to help people and be a doctor. |
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