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I Should Not Have Said That with The Dashleys

What We're Working on Personally - Part 2

I Should Not Have Said That with The Dashleys

The Dashleys

Society & Culture, Personal Journals

52.7K Ratings

🗓️ 19 April 2019

⏱️ 52 minutes

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Summary

In part 2 of this 2 part podcast, Dallin and Ashley dive into things they've been working on personally lately. Dallin discusses working on being principle-centered rather than kid-centered or wife-centered, and Ashley discusses how she's trying to model correct behavior for the kids instead of just tell them what to do. 

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0:00.0

All right, welcome back to part two. Let's dive into what Ashley and I have been working on personally.

0:04.6

Okay, we wanted to end this podcast. Don't worry, it's not ending for a bit.

0:09.7

But we wanted to end it with kind of each of our...

0:14.2

What we've been working on lately.

0:15.7

Like, we're like our personal mantras or what we're working on personally.

0:21.8

You'll get it when you hear it. What do you want to start? Do you want me to start?

0:26.5

I can start.

0:27.6

Taste start for us.

0:29.1

So I have been working on lately.

0:33.2

Just I will... I realized, I guess, on our trip to Denver that I had just...

0:38.4

The great refiner's fire.

0:40.2

The great refiner's fire.

0:43.4

I just realized that I've kind of been in this func lately just reacting instead of like

0:48.1

acting from who I am, as Dalin. I've just been reacting to emotions or reacting to the

0:55.3

needs of the kids or reacting to things I expect you want me to do or reacting to

1:01.6

things that I think others would expect me to do in this situation rather than choosing to do it

1:06.8

because I feel like it's the right thing, the best thing that I could be doing right now.

1:11.3

And it's just not a healthy place to be in mentally. When you're just doing everything that

1:17.1

you expect others would want you to be doing or everything that just needs to be done in the moment,

1:21.0

urging urgent things coming at you.

1:22.8

Well usually when you're not you but when a person reacts or just does what they're told,

1:28.9

it's begrudgingly or with the mindset I could be doing.

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