What's up, love a girl, welcome back to the day with since podcast.

Okay, girl, I was inspired to do this episode number one because it is a constant thing that comes up with my, like, women who follow me on social media.

It comes up a lot with my clients of, like, why did this man ask me this?

I can't believe this man asking this question.

And I always ask them, I said, you know, like if men keep asking you this,

why don't you have an answer? Like if you know, like we can argue about the questions that

men ask because typically it like we, when we get asked certain questions like why are you still single

or what do you bring to the table um or you know um what are you looking for tell me about

yourself you know those types of questions what you're doing doing, W-Y-D. When they ask certain

questions, then we're like, that's a dumb-ass question. Like, why are you asking me a question

like that, you know? And I'm like, you getting annoyed isn't going to stop men from asking you.

Men are going to continue to ask you these questions like they have been.

So I need to know why you don't have an answer.

How come at our big age, there's no answer?

Because either you're going to continue to be triggered and frustrated,

or you are going to feel so calm and confident because you know how to respond to

all of the the dumb-ass questions or the awkward questions or the, you know, or questions that

are not so dumb, but maybe awkward or triggering, like you'll be able to respond to those.

So for example, I don't think when men say,

why are you still single is always a dumb question. It's only a dumb question when they come

from a dumb angle. If they're asking why are you still single from a dumb angle, it's a dumb

question. But in general, I just think that's a regular, a regular question to ask someone,

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