Most women don't need more goals. They need fewer obligations. I know that sounds backwards,

like something a life coach would say right before they try to sell you a $10,000 course on doing less,

but hear me out. This isn't about laziness. This is about subtraction. It's about finally admitting

the reason you're exhausted isn't because you're not doing enough. It's because you're doing too

much of

the wrong things. Because 2026 growth won't come from another planner with inspirational

quotes on every page, another new year, new you hustle season, where you wake up at 3 a.m.

to journal and green juice your way to success. It'll come from what you finally have the guts

to walk away from. Today we're talking about the habits, roles, and mindsets. You have to quit this

year to make space for what God is actually trying to build through you. But before we get

started, I want to tell you. Okay, let's dive in.

Here's the truth. Growth doesn't just come from stacking more things on your already full plate,

like some kind of jenga tower of anxiety. It comes from pruning. If you want to go higher,

you've got to cut lower into what's cluttering your time and energy and clarity. And I need you to hear

me say this because we don't talk about it enough. Don't call it loyalty if it's actually avoidance.

We are masters, and I mean masters at convincing ourselves that we're being faithful to commitments

when we're actually just terrified to let go. We will drag dead obligations around like weekend at Bernice,

propping them up and pretending they're still alive

because admitting their dead feels like failure.

It's not failure. It's wisdom.

This is the year you stop being available to what's not your assignment.

I want to tell you about someone I worked with, Michelle.

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