What To Look For When Dating To Find a Life Partner
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 5 March 2024
⏱️ 66 minutes
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Summary
Remi Stern, life coach, and her husband Jonathan are cohosts of the "You're Allowed to Hate Your Hubsand" podcast. Remi and Jonathan join the show to talk about what they were looking for when they met each other, the expectations vs. realities of marriage, and how they view marriage as a dedication vs. "work." Jonathan shares how he thinks women can approach dating in a better way, and we discuss how we can shift our mindsets to have less pain and more success in our dating lives and relationships.
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| 0:00.0 | This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation. |
| 0:04.8 | Hey guys, it's Alana and welcome back to another episode of Seeing Other People. |
| 0:10.1 | Together, we're navigating modern dating alongside experts and real-life daters who are sharing |
| 0:14.9 | their stories. Don't have a date for tonight? No problem. Come learn, laugh, and maybe even |
| 0:20.3 | cry along with us as we navigate the dating scene together. |
| 0:23.2 | Hey guys, it's Lana and welcome back for another episode of seeing other people. I am so excited today. |
| 0:29.2 | I am like going to be so giggly throughout this entire thing, but I'm going to try and keep my cool. |
| 0:34.4 | I couldn't be more excited to be joined by Jonathan and Remy Stern. You guys, welcome |
| 0:38.9 | to seeing other people. Thank you. We're so happy to be here. How happy. Oh my God, the most |
| 0:44.0 | happy because you and I like should have met a long time ago and we're very, very similar. |
| 0:49.9 | And our childhood like dreams were just the same. So we're already like having the best time, like the best first date. So it's so bad. I'm at a 10. I'm very excited for this. Wow. We went from a 9 to a 10. We did. I did it, you guys. I did it. Wow. What a time. Okay. Well, the two of you co-hosts the podcast. You're allowed to hate your husband. Yes, we do. Remme, you are a life coach, dating and relationship coach. Where did this podcast concept come from and why you're allowed to hate your husband? Do you hate him? Sometimes. Fair. Sometimes he drives me crazy. And there was a point, listen, when you're married,'s there's transitions and we had a baby and all |
| 1:28.2 | the sudden you're like counting how many diapers you guys are doing and and and one's messy and one's |
| 1:34.0 | not and one's going out more and like life it just changes it changes the dynamic I never counted |
| 1:39.1 | how many diapers I did because you haven't done any there weren't for you to count |
| 1:43.2 | four I guess and and the dynamic changes but nobody did. Because you haven't done any. There weren't enough for you to count. Two to four in two years. |
| 1:46.0 | And the dynamic changes, but nobody preps you for this. |
| 1:49.0 | Nobody teaches you how to be married. |
| 1:51.0 | I come from parents who have divorced and the pain of watching their divorce and experiencing |
| 1:56.0 | it. |
| 1:57.0 | I said, I do not want this to ever, ever happen to my kids. |
| 2:00.0 | But nobody teaches you how to be married. No one teaches you how to choose your partner. And, you know, you go to school for so many years to learn, who knows what, not even finances, not even that. Then you go to college and you leave. And like, you could, you go into a job, but you can change the job at any moment you know you can change your |
| 2:17.5 | job tomorrow the next day whatever you want marriage nobody teaches you who to choose how to be with |
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