Hey everybody, welcome to another episode of Relationship Theory. I am your co-host Tom

Billu. I am here with my wife and best is the best friends.

Hey, hey, best is the best.

BFF for Schwaezy.

Oh, thank you, baby. You're my best friend too.

Really are.

Absolutely true.

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Alright, without further ado, let's dig in.

Alright, this is from Sunny Gandhi. Hey guys, my wife is suffering from anxiety because

of something happening at work. I'm trying my best to make her feel relaxed and make her

feel important. I told her that she could quit her job and find something else that she

likes if she wants, but she doesn't want the financial burden to go on me. Do you have any

issue? Sorry, do you have any ideas how can I make her feel more comfortable and something

else I can do in such situation?

So first of all, there's nothing that can be done that will be as powerful as her doing

the work. So she's going to have to build in a meditative practice, really re-conceptualize

what it is is going on. It's causing the anxiety and dealing with that I think is super, super

important and I'll go more into that in a second, but the alternate option is also if

it really is just a gnarly situation and she can get out of it, then she probably should.

Now, the only reason that I don't give that equal weight is it's entirely possible that

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