[Original air date: 2-25-22]. The key to being married happily ever after is embracing change and the different phases life and your relationship will bring your way. Part of the human experience is evolution, so it is only natural that the person you start dating today will not be the same person you are with 5 or 10 years from now. SHOW NOTES: Disruptive Change | How Lisa made big changes by inviting Tom into the solution [0:42] Need to Change | How Lisa identified the need and desire to change [5:03] Don’t Be Dismissive | How Lisa thought through not being dismissive of Tom’s feelings [10:01] Foundation for Change | How Tom & Lisa’s foundation made her change possible [13:19] Personality Change | Tom on how he was able to connect to Lisa’s personality change [15:37] Finding Balance | How Lisa learned to pivot being hard in business and softer at home [22:32] QUOTES: “If you want someone [...] to be there when you're weak, you have to be honest about where you're weak.” Lisa Bilyeu [1:43] “You either bring them in to be a helpful source, or you push them away and say, I can do this by myself.” Lisa Bilyeu [7:00] “I want you to become whoever you want to become in order to be proud. And I want you to feel that you've become as powerful as you want to become.” Tom Bilyeu [21:49] Follow Lisa Bilyeu: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Follow Tom Bilyeu: Website: https://impacttheory.com/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/TomBilyeu  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tombilyeu  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/ SPONSORS: If you purchase an item using these affiliate links, Impact Theory may receive a commission. Try Audible FREE for 30 days! Just visit https://audible.com/woi or text woi to 500-500. This episode is sponsored by Betterhelp. Give online therapy a try at https://betterhelp.com/women and get on your way to being your best self! Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa now to grow your business–no matter what stage you’re in. ButcherBox is offering our listeners their choice of a weeknight meal essential— 3 lbs of chicken thighs, 2 lbs of ground beef, or 1 lb of premium steak tips — for free in every order for a whole year, plus, get $20 off your first order at https://butcherbox.com/WOI and use code WOI to choose your free offer and get $20 off. Get a free 30-day Alo Moves subscription by going to https://alomoves.com and use code WOI.  Go to https://Zocdoc.com/LISA and download the Zocdoc app for FREE to find and book a top-rated doctor today.  Right now, download NetSuite’s popular KPI Checklist, designed to give you consistently excellent performance - absolutely free, at https://NetSuite.com/WOMEN. Go to https://tryviome.com/LISA and use code LISA to get 20% off your first 3 months, and take control of your gut health today! Try AG1 and get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase by going to https://drinkAG1.com/lisa. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices