What to Do When You Hate Sex

Conversations with Dr. Jennifer

Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

Self-improvement, Education, Mental Health, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.4 • 978 Ratings

🗓️ 25 September 2020

⏱️ 35 minutes

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In this podcast Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Monica Packer of the About Progress podcast to discuss -How to stop hating sex -How to make sense of your negative feelings towards physical intimacy. -The importance of sexual self-development in your personal confidence. -The importance of pleasure in living joyfully. AND MORE! To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights. www.Finlayson-Fife.com This episode was originally aired on September 25, 2020. You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher. The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information. It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care. Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions. Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment. The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever. The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease. The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.

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0:00.0	Hi, my name is Ruby, and I'm Dr. Jennifer Finlason-Fyke's assistant, and you're listening to the Dr Finlason-5 podcast Archive.
0:08.0	The podcast you'll be listening to today is entitled,
0:12.0	What to Do When You Hate Sex,
0:14.4	originally produced and published by Monica Packer of the About Progress Podcast.
0:19.2	Welcome and we hope you enjoy this episode. you are listening to about progress. This is episode 288. What to do when you
0:30.0	hate sex with Dr. Jennifer Finlayason Fife. Oh boy is that episode title alone super loaded.
0:38.0	Now I definitely moved into marriage basically having little to no clue about intimacy, both the mechanics and the meaning.
0:46.3	Now what I do know now almost 13 years in is that intimacy is a vital part of strong relationships and that it takes ongoing work and communication.
0:57.1	It takes persistence, which is why we are taking this topic on during our month's theme, Persevere. I know that many of my
1:05.5	listeners can relate to this learning that I have had and with that also relate to
1:10.3	having periods of time where intimacy is not something that is enjoyable, or even
1:14.7	worse, something that you hate.
1:17.1	Whether this is a season in your relationship that you are experiencing now, or a longstanding
1:22.3	reaction to sex, I know that the best person to take on how to
1:26.2	persist in this important relationship is Dr. Jennifer Finlison Fife.
1:31.0	Jennifer is a marriage and sex psychotherapist and coach and she has seen it all.
1:37.0	While this podcast is never designed to be exclusive, to go more in depth we framed our discussion around sex within marriage.
1:45.0	Today she will truly give you a hug and kick in the pants about how to shift from
1:50.0	victim to hero with your own relationship to intimacy and how with time and
1:54.8	persistence it can become a valued part of your married life.
2:01.2	So I'm Jennifer Finlison Fife and I am a coach and educator and licensed therapist and I do a lot of work around helping couples and specifically LDS couples have stronger, happier, emotional and sexual relationships.
2:20.0	And so I do a lot of online teaching and workshops to help people to reframe their understanding of sexuality and intimacy and emotional intimacy and create stronger relationships.
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