If you've ever been in a conversation where someone starts crying, shuts down, or lashes out, and you weren't sure what to do, this episode is for you.

Hello, friends, and welcome to the Bright Morning podcast. I'm your host, Elena Akelar, and in each episode, you will learn how to lead conversations that

build connection and spark real change.

Okay, so today we are diving into one of the most vulnerable, most human leadership moments, which is what to do when someone

breaks down in front of you. So let's get into it. These moments are more common than you might

think. You're in a coaching conversation or a team check-in.

You ask a question, and suddenly you are met with tears or silence or an outburst of frustration.

And you freeze.

You're not sure what to say or how to respond.

And part of you might be wondering, did I do something wrong?

So I want to take you back to a moment early in my coaching career when this happened to me.

I was working with a teacher.

I will call her Mina, who was navigating a lot.

She had a challenging class.

She was taking night courses, and she had just lost a family member.

And during a routine check-in, I asked, how are you holding up?

She looked at me, her lip quivered, and then the tears came, fast and heavy tears.

And she covered her face with both hands, and she just wept.

And I remember feeling panicky.

My internal voice was racing and saying, should I hug her? Should I say

something? Should I leave? Should we keep going? I didn't know what to do. Here's what I have learned

since then and what I want to offer you today. When someone breaks down in front of you, it's not a problem to be solved.

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