What’s Your Arousal Type?

Sex With Emily

Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.3 • 6.8K Ratings

🗓️ 22 June 2022

⏱️ 39 minutes

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What do you need to get in the mood for sex? Have a lively conversation? Be touched in a suggestive way? Put on something sexy…or, have your partner get dressed up for you? Today’s episode is all about arousal styles, and today, I’ll be looking at five. The science of sexual arousal is ever-evolving, but on this show I’m looking at some of the most common ways people get turned on (through conversation, visuals, touch, play or physical adventure), helping you ID what your style is, and what behaviors you can do in the moment to get it going. Kind of like love languages, but for sex. I’m also talking about the difference between arousal and desire, and, taking your questions! How to have sex when you’re stressed, anti-depressants numbing out your vulva, and if it’s OK to be more excited for masturbation than partnered sex. Show Notes: There Are 5 Arousal Styles. Which One Are You? Sex Up Your Love Language Tell Me About The Last Time You Had Sex w/ Ian Kerner The Yes No Maybe List You’re Kinkier Than You Think, Part 1 You’re Kinkier Than You Think, Part 2 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Now, desire is about motivation, but arousal is about preparation.
0:09.6	Desire moves you to act, right?
0:11.6	Arousal is your body getting you ready for whatever appealing thing is about to happen.
0:16.4	Sex, eating something delicious.
0:19.3	So arousal is the physical manifestation of your desire.
0:23.4	It signifies all the physical signs happening in your body when you're turned on.
0:29.2	You're listening to Sex with Emily.
0:30.9	I'm Dr. Emily and I'm here to help you prioritize your pleasure and liberate conversation around
0:36.6	sex.
0:38.1	So what do you need to get in the mood for sex?
0:40.7	Have a lively conversation, be touched in a suggestive way, put on something sexy,
0:47.0	have your partner get dressed up for you?
0:49.1	Well today's episode is all about arousal styles and today I'll be looking at five.
0:54.3	The science of sexual arousal is ever evolving, but on this show I'm looking at some of
0:59.1	the most common ways people get turned on through conversation, through visuals, touch,
1:04.9	play, or physical adventure.
1:07.2	Helping you identify what your style is and what behaviors you can do in the moment
1:12.4	to get it going.
1:13.6	Kind of like love languages, but for sex.
1:16.6	I'm also talking about the difference between arousal and desire and taking your questions,
1:22.8	how to have sex in your stress, and it oppresence numbing out your vulva, and if it's okay to
1:28.3	be more excited for masturbation than partnered sex.
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