Let me tell you why I wasn't right, because you were new at dating.

You said he was texting you every two weeks.

So for a lot of people that wouldn't feel right, I'd be like, where'd you go?

You want to talk more often, so there probably were signs there.

Like when you were with them it was probably great.

But then, you know, maybe you got busy in your life, but I would say there were probably

signs that it wasn't perfect.

In the sense of like, you probably there were signs that he was seeing other people or that

was going to drop off.

You know what I'm saying?

So let that experience go from a year ago.

We tend to hang on to our last experience that was the most intense.

You're listening to Sex with Emily.

I'm Dr. Emily and I'm here to help you prioritize your pleasure and liberate the conversation

around sex.

It's one of the most common questions I get.

How do I initiate sex the right way?

Listen, there's no right way to initiate sex, but I'll be honest, it might take a little

warm-up period to get everyone ready and on the same page.

And that's because sex is just as much a head game as a body one.

So in this episode, we're helping you calm your nerves before initiation, recover from

failed initiations because that happens and walk into each sexual encounter with more

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