Marriage is falling apart when they literally don't even have to.

It's really predictable and it's really preventable. And yet they fall apart anyway because people just don't know. Asa al-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-vraqa-vraqa-vraqa. Welcome back to the mindful Muslim-Safiqs podcast. I'm your host. And today I need to talk you about something that is a little bit crazy. Just a little bit.

After coaching with women for 25 years, thousands and thousands of women.

In 100 plus countries, really, really diverse women,

I'm seeing this heartbreaking pattern of marriages getting destroyed from the inside out.

And the truth is, even the strongest marriage can fall victim to this one thing. It's subtle,

it's destructive, it's the enemy of a good marriage. And what I'm about to share with you

reveals the hidden force that is sabotaging your marriage, maybe without you even knowing it. And it's

not what you think. The real culprit is something common, so seemingly innocent that most of us don't even realize we're doing it. And it's not what you think. The real culprit is something common, so seemingly

innocent that most of us don't even realize we're doing it. And says, once you know what this thing is

and you can identify it, you can entirely change your marriage because now you know and everything

will make sense. You'll finally understand why some couples thrive and some just absolutely

fall apart. Why some women feel cherished in a marriage and when understand why some couples thrive and some just absolutely fall apart, why some

women feel cherished in a marriage and why some feel so invisible. And most importantly,

you know exactly what to do about it. Let's go. Welcome to the Mindfulness Speaks podcast, a safe

space to learn and grow into the best version of yourself that you're always meant to be. I'm your host, mindful Muslim mom of five, big sister to the community and a licensed educator

with 25 plus years and supporting tens of thousands of Muslim women worldwide.

Now I'm excited to share a ton of solutions to your problems on love, relationships, life

balance, reconnecting with a less dependent with Ae'a, getting back on track and more. So grab a cup of coffee and close out those tabs. These next 20 to 30 minutes are all about you. Let's get started. I'm going to dive right into it. I'm going to tell you about this sister named Ayesha. I've totally changed her name to, you know, protect her identity. She came to me like, I don't know, six months ago, completely heartbroken.

After eight years of marriage, she has two kids.

Beautiful children, husband, great job, everything.

From the outside, everything looks really perfect.

...