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Lisa, welcome to the program.

Hello, I am very anxious and excited to get some of your wisdom.

Well, I'll do my best or scrounge some up.

How can I help?

Well, my husband and I have been having some problems.

It kind of went back to when I first had children and I didn't realize that I was trying to be a better mother than I had, and I neglected my husband.

Through reading your book, I have found that out.

I just started reading it again, and I have been very weepy, and I don't know what to do

with this dilemma.

I caught my husband looking at porn and enjoying himself, and my children also walked in the house and caught him periodically.

He also liked different pictures and whatever, and I went through his phone and I said something to him about it, and we had a big blow up, and I said,

you need to get rid of all these ladies. So he deleted some of them, but not all of them. When I

looked at the phone again, I said something to him about it that I was going to be done if he didn't.

And so we, before then, we were kind of like in a sexless marriage.

I have gone to the doctor to find things to help.

And anyway, we have gotten, well, he told me in the heat of anger, he said,

that he would put a roof over my head, and that has stuck with me.

And we're, I still, I'm working on my trust with him, trying to overcome it.

Well, I have some, I have COPD.

And after reading your book, he did tell me before he said about the

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