Thanks for listening to my call of the day podcast. You can hear my live radio program Monday through Friday from 2 to 5 p.m. Eastern Time on Sirius XM Triumph 11. Kelly, welcome to the program.

Hi, dear. Thank you. Hi. What can I do for you? Well, I listened to your show the other day, and it resonated with me. You talked with

another woman or mother, their daughter, that a man truly takes, or I believe this is what

you said, like, if there's going to be a change, but the change takes 10 years, and my daughter

is 29, and why wait 10 years to see if the change is going

to actually happen. And I have a 29-year-old beautiful daughter, very well-educated, self-supporting,

who went back with a jerk who had originally stole the money from her. We helped to get the money

back, doesn't have a car. But has a very gregarious

personality and move her back and supposedly it's in counseling to help with his drinking.

We don't understand. We have a real rift in our relationship because we did a lot of tough love

and had her pay her car back, cut her phone off, go get your own phone.

We were subsidizing over the rent so she could live very nicely, took all that away.

And, of course, she won't blame him.

I said, this is because of him.

We're going to do nothing to subsidize you having a relationship with him.

If he's going to ding your phone, get your own phone.

Because she'd been on our on our phone forever and she had

lived, she lived out of the country for over five years. So, you know, that was, you know, I don't

think we were completely enabling. It was just a phone. We had all, it was a family, with the

phone. But anyway, we actually had a, she had a second job with us where we let her go from that instantly because he was helping her cloak, giving her ideas, he was so important.

And I am trying to keep this relationship, but it's very hard.

She won't talk.

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