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The Documentary Podcast

What My Parents Taught Me

The Documentary Podcast

BBC

Society & Culture, Documentary

4.32.7K Ratings

🗓️ 7 December 2016

⏱️ 27 minutes

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Summary

For the eight-year-old Louisa Smith, a day trip to the beach with her father became an experience which shaped her life. The family car was stopped by an armed man, who makes it clear he is prepared to kill them unless he is driven to where he wants to go. But Louisa’s father is a Vietnam veteran, with a unique insight into how to unsettle their abductor. Shobande Shina recalls a mistake with money which stayed with him forever, and Nelson Bohorquez from Colombia, offers a unique glimpse of his mother’s sense of humour. And, from Syria, Layal Mahfoud remembers her mother’s lesson in standing up for her future. Plus, contributions from Debbie Camara, Masiliso Akayombokwa, Dana Silcox, Paola Ribadeneira and Jake Crawford. The Response is open to all and for the next topic we want you to tell us a story about an inspirational woman. As part of the World Service 100 Women series we are asking for your tales about women who changed your life or your community – or you may be a woman who changed things. How did you do it? Email us a voice memo or message recorded on your phone to worldservice.letters@bbc.co.uk. We look forward to hearing from you! Picture: A child holding an adult's hand, Credit: Thinkstock

Transcript

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0:00.0

I'm Sheymah Khalil and you're listening to the response on the BBC World Service.

0:07.0

It's a new program which lets you broadcast a story to the world using the technology in your pocket.

0:17.0

You'll hear stories about a father's reaction when his family was confronted by an armed kidnapper and how a Syrian woman

0:25.0

inspired her daughter's success.

0:30.0

Here's how it works. We asked a simple question online.

0:33.0

Could you tell us a story about the influence your parents had on you?

0:37.0

It was the cue for anyone with access to a smartphone to make a two minute recording recording and email it to us.

0:43.0

You're about to hear the results, stories about our parents unique influence on us, good and bad.

1:00.0

But I know what you're thinking.

1:07.0

Why am I hearing a live recording of Deaf leopard? Well, it's because the rock band played a key part in the life of one of our contributors who you'll hear from later in the program.

1:17.0

But first, here's a story from a childhood in Nigeria, as one man remembers a big mistake

1:27.2

over small change.

1:29.5

I am Shubandilhino in Nigeria, living in South Africa, and I'm going to be talking about my father.

1:35.6

I had a very beautiful childhood even though they didn't have enough.

1:45.0

He gave his oil.

1:50.0

I tried making extra cash to pay school bills by, you know, sometimes driving a taxi or selling

1:58.5

homemade cleaning stuff.

2:02.0

There's one particular event that I've never forgotten and I don't think I'm going to forget.

2:07.0

I was to buy kerosin for cooking and yeah, it gave me 500 nira instead of 400 nira. I thought they made a mistake I was so

2:18.7

happy you know I was spending buying fried fish and every other thing I was having so much fun but when I got

2:26.2

home he asked for for the change said but I gave you 500 and I know my father doesn't make mistakes with mine. Definitely not. But you know in just my childish sense, I was the fool. And from that time onward I learned a very important lesson that you don't take people

2:50.9

for granted and it's been a lesson that has been with me even from

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