Ladies, forget the hair, forget the body, forget the outfit.

What makes a man pursue a woman is when you tap into your feminine energy at just the right moments throughout the dating process.

And look, if you're a successful single woman looking for love, you probably heard the advice to just lean into your feminine.

And in my experience, is typically one of three responses.

First is, what the hell does that mean? The second is, I'm not going to pretend to be some

girly girl that I'm not. And the third one is usually sounds good, but I don't know how to actually

do that. Now, regardless of your response, I just want to say, feminine and masculine energy can actually

shift depending on the situation and what it is that you're actually doing. It's not like you

always live in your feminine or you always live in your masculine. And in my experience,

when it comes to dating and having coached tens of thousands of the most successful women on

the planet, I'm talking doctors,

lawyers, politicians, entrepreneurs, you name it. I've seen firsthand that both the masculine

and the feminine energy are incredibly powerful and valid throughout the dating process. The key

isn't to just shut one down completely, but instead to really know when to lean into your

feminine and when to lean into your feminine and when to lean

into your masculine throughout the dating process. And generally speaking, we want to use our masculine

to get out there and find the guy and use your feminine energy to create the spark when you found

him. And this is absolutely possible. As I mentioned earlier, we use feminine masculine energy in many different situations. For example, when I go on date night with my wife Jessica, I will step into my masculine because I want to create that spark. But I will tell you, if we're doing something else in this household, for example, I'm not a planner. And if she wants to plan a vacation, she is stepping into her

masculine. I'm leaning back, letting her take control because you know what? She's really good at it.

And whatever you want, honey. That sounds great. And this is even true professionally. Like, I'm the

CEO of a company with over 20 team members. When I'm working with my team members, I'm typically

stepping into more of a directive masculine role. But I'll tell you what, once I'm done with

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