Friday night, 3 a.m.

This is Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, and you're listening to the love, happiness, and success

podcast.

It's all right.

I'm going to do something bad tonight.

The wimps, the song is OPP.

In this case, OPP stands for other people's pizza, but I still wanted to use this song,

first of all, because I love this band.

And second of all, today,

we're talking about what is your problem? What is your problem specifically? Compared to what is

somebody else's problem? I have a whole category of things in my mind that are other people's

problems. OPPs, hence the relevance of this song and a nice intro into what we're going to be

talking about on today's show, which is figuring out what is actually your problem and what is

someone else's problem and getting clarity and confidence to set boundaries between those things

so that you don't get pushed around by other people and so that you are actually taking

personal responsibility around the things that you are actually taking personal responsibility around the

things that you do actually need to do in your relationships, in yourself, in your life.

So good stuff in store for us today. And I'm glad you're here. If this is your first time

listening to this show, I would like to formally welcome you. I am Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby. I'm the founder

and clinical director of growing self-counseling and coaching. I am a licensed marriage and family

therapist, so I specialize in relationships, but I'm also a licensed psychologist. So I do have

some insight into the quirks of humanity in the way people are. And I am also, though, a board certified

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