You might change your goals if you're attaining, but listening, it's like listening to the undercurrent.

Right, that can feel scary.

Terrifying.

That speaks back to, oh gosh, if I start to attune to what is really, really true underneath for me.

Yeah.

What does that mean?

I mean, the threat is your whole life might change.

And the promise.

Welcome to the art of accomplishment, where we explore living the life you want with enjoyment and ease.

I'm Tara Howley, and today I'm here with Janine Parzioli, one of our lead facilitators, and I'm so excited to have her on the episode and introduce you all to her.

Hi, Janine. Welcome. Hi, Tara. Very excited.

So I want to start out with just the most basic question, which is what the heck is attunement?

What is attunement? That's a great question. I see attunement as a mixture of deep, active listening

connection to self. So if I'm attuning to someone else, I'm not leaving myself. I'm

actually deeply connected to myself,

listening to myself, and tuned in like a radio station to me and tuned in like a radio station

to the person. So it's this very deep back and forth movement where I'm not abandoning myself.

I'm right here with someone else in a deep listening on multiple levels. So like just active listening, I might just hear the words,

but if I'm attuned listening, I'm hearing what's under the words. I'm hearing that there might

be grief under what a person is saying or sadness or

anger, tuning into the emotional qualities of a person, the physical qualities, how someone's

using their hand, the intellectual quality, sharp mind or open mind, and tuning into the wholeness of a person from my

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