Hey everybody welcome to your move I'm Andy Stanley did you know that every happy couple

every happy couple makes the same choice over and over and over and over and today we're

going to talk about that choice that happy couples make stick around.

Today I want to talk about perhaps the single most important choice that you'll make in

a relationship as it relates to becoming a happy couple and making the relationship something

that's attractive and attractive to you and stays attractive to you.

I want to talk about a choice that every coupled person makes everybody that's in a couple

every coupled makes every single day this choice and everybody makes this decision whether

you were aware of it or not everybody makes this decision but it feels oftentimes more

like a reaction than a decision.

So the point of today's message is I want to point out a decision that you're already

making and perhaps help you make a better decision.

Most people don't even feel like they have a choice but they do and so happy couples make

what we're going to call the happy choice and what is this choice that happy couples make

that they don't know they're making that makes all the difference.

And the answer to that question is found in a letter that the Apostle Paul wrote to some

Christians in the first century in the city of Corinth and he wrote this letter to primarily

Gentile, non-Jewish, new Christians who were trying to sort out the whole Christian thing

and there's only one God and what do we do with the other gods and you know we used to

go to the temple and we had religion this way now you're explaining that religion is a

different way.

And so one of the things the Apostle Paul had to do and his English Bible readers where

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