Hey everybody, welcome to Year of Move.

I'm Andy Stanley.

When it comes to relationships, we all have a box full of hopes, dreams and desires.

And then we meet someone.

And then we hand them our box.

And that's when the trouble begins.

But that's what we're talking about today right here on Year of Move.

Hey, we're in part two of this series and what happy couple to know.

And to recap where we were last time.

All of us come into relationships or dream of relationships or imagine relationships

with things in mind that we want to be true of those relationships.

We move toward engagement with those things.

We move toward the altar with those things.

And essentially we said last week, it's essentially that we all have a box of hopes and dreams

and desires.

And even if you're single and not dating anybody right now, you could sit down and sort

of script out in general terms.

Hey, if I'm ever in a relationship, if I'm ever married, here's what I'd like it to look

like, relationally.

Now, the problem is, or the challenge, it's not even a problem, it's just the challenge,

the challenge is this.

When we daydream about the future, our future, as we daydream and as we imagine, it organizes

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