Christian nationalists want to turn America into a theocracy, a government under biblical rule.

If they gain more power, it could mean fewer rights for you.

I'm Heath Drusen and on the new season of Extremely

American I'll take you inside the movement. Listen to Extremely American from

Boise State Public Radio, part of the NPR Network.

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Hey everybody, it's Mariel.

Today we're going to talk about cheating on a romantic partner.

Not how to do it, how to come back from it,

whether that means come back together or come back to yourself.

T'alla Asilim is a psychologist and a licensed marriage and family therapist, and his specialty is helping couples heal after affairs.

Which could mean healing by repairing the relationship and making it stronger and better

than it was prior to the discovery or healing individually because at the end of the day not everybody's

going to be able and willing to do what it takes to rebuild trust.

It's hard work, you know, whether you were the unfaithful partner or the betrayed partner.

And while we all want neat answers on these things,

should I stay or should I go,

that's not something anyone else can tell you, even your therapist.

I'm a firm believer that as a clinician your job is not to tell people that they should stay or leave.

Your job is to help give them the

information that they need to make that informed decision and if that

decision is to repair the relationship, then your job is to actually help them

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