What Happened In Your Childhood That Effed You Up Today?
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🗓️ 21 March 2025
⏱️ 7 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | The Birch Show. This week on the breakup breakdown, I didn't know I was starting the break, sorry. |
| 0:05.3 | This week on the breakup breakdown, we talked about attachment style theory. And this is the thing that |
| 0:10.4 | comes up, I feel like every other week, because it is such an easy way to explain away somebody's |
| 0:16.4 | behavior. And it's probably going to be one of the first things that a therapist brings up with you in your |
| 0:22.2 | childhood history if you're talking about why you do things in a relationship and this week on my |
| 0:26.9 | podcast which is on bert's network the pioneer network the breakup breakdown we talked about how some |
| 0:32.5 | guy cheated on his girl which is the tail is old as time but it's because he had a certain attachment |
| 0:37.3 | style and your attachment style has everything but it's because he had a certain attachment style. |
| 0:37.9 | And your attachment style has everything to do with how you had a relationship with your caregiver. |
| 0:43.9 | So if you had a caregiver that was really flighty, you may have an avoid an attachment style. |
| 0:48.6 | If you had a caregiver that was really good and did everything right and we're a gentle parent, |
| 0:52.6 | then you may have a secure attachment |
| 0:54.5 | style and you're perfect and you don't need to change anything about your life. But there are so |
| 0:58.5 | The psychology is psychology-e-e-the-sychology-een. So I thought it would be really fun to get |
| 1:04.5 | super-therapies today. And while I can't tell you what happened in your childhood to make you |
| 1:09.6 | the way that you are. Oh yeah, you can. You know us pretty well. Right now, I can't tell you what happened in your childhood to make you the way that you are. Oh yeah, you can. |
| 1:11.4 | You know it's pretty well. |
| 1:12.6 | Right now, I can possibly help you work backwards by figuring out what your attachment style is with a Tiger Beat style quiz. |
| 1:20.2 | I'm calling what happened in your childhood that effed you up today. |
| 1:26.7 | Oh, I can do this for four hours. |
| 1:29.4 | Today we are playing for the coveted secure attachment style, meaning you have no problems |
| 1:34.4 | with relationships whatsoever, but you probably most likely either have an anxious attachment |
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