On this episode of Women of Impact, motivational speaker and dating advice expert Matthew Hussey joins Lisa Bilyeu to discuss such matters and more as they break down the complicated parts of finding love and reveal how dating and relationships can be much simpler than you might think. They discuss the importance of feeling someone just try in a relationship, how to identify good intentions, why you have to invest in someone, the pitfalls of building up a story in our heads even before the first date, and why you should be willing to ask the difficult questions necessary in developing a strong relationship long-term. [Original air date: 10/28/20]. SHOW NOTES: It’s Not That Complicated | Matthew shares the importance of feeling someone just try. [1:53] Intentions | Matthew discusses the difference between attention and intention. [5:46] Invest, Then Test | Matthew shares why trying and staying confident is key to finding love. [7:20] Complicated | Matthew shares why we try to force a fix when it gets complicated. [12:45] Fantasy | Matthew reveals the pitfalls of writing a story in your head before it’s unfolded. [15:15] Process | Matthew shares the four stages of importance in developing any relationship. [18:13] Maintenance | Matthew discusses why the work in a relationship never ends. [23:52] What They Actually Mean | Matthew reveals the true meaning behind what he says. [27:09] What You Can Trust | Matthew reveals what you can trust that signals he likes you. [31:45] Ask | Matthew shares why you shouldn’t shy away from asking the tough questions. [33:56] Be Ruthless | Matthew reveals why you have to stand firm in your conviction. [39:21] Love Switches | Matthew discusses the importance of knowing what your partner needs. [40:05] Difficult Talks | Matthew shares why you shouldn’t steer clear of difficult conversations. [43:12] FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: https://bit.ly/2TIsoKh YouTube: https://bit.ly/2IAbTcH Podcast: https://spoti.fi/2IEajGW FOLLOW MATTHEW: Website: threelovehabits.com YouTube: youtube.com/user/gettheguyteam Instagram: instagram.com/thematthewhussey Facebook: facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey Twitter: twitter.com/matthewhussey SPONSORS: Go to https://lumen.me and use code NYBBS to get $50 off your Lumen.  Go to https://Butcherbox.com/WOI and use code W-O-I at checkout and enjoy your choice of bone-in chicken thighs, top sirloins, or salmon in every box for an entire year, plus get $20 off! Be sure to get your copy of Lisa’s book, Radical Confidence, here: https://radicalconfidence.com/ Go to https://www.heytabu.com/discount/LISA15 use code LISA15 to save 15% off your order Get 5 free AG1 Travel Packs and a FREE 1 year supply of Vitamin D with your first purchase your first purchase by going to https://drinkAG1.com/lisa. Go to https://tryviome.com/LISA and use code LISA to get 20% off your first 3 months, and take control of your gut health today! ORDER YOUR COPY OF LISA'S BOOK "RADICAL CONFIDENCE"  (NOW IN PAPERBACK & WITH A NEW CHAPTER!) & GET YOUR FREE BADASS BONUSES: https://bit.ly/radcon ***CALLING ALL BADASSES!*** If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  *New episodes delivered ad-free, EXCLUSIVE access to hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, and so much more!* Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices