You're going to see. the Welcome to the Smart Couple Podcast and Show, impromptu style here, where we take a question

from a listener, and then we dive in.

If you haven't submitted a question in a while, please do.

You can just send them to info at relationshipschool.net

and put podcast question in the subject line.

That helps us understand that we have permission

to use your first name and where you're from,

and then we dive in, okay?

Okay, doing work in relationship.

This one is from April, from Austin, right?

She says, you're always talking about doing the work.

What does that mean?

Also dealing with inner child work does this mean getting a therapist?

That's the question right What do you guys think?

What does it mean to do the work?

Let's answer that question first, then we'll get to the inner child question.

What does doing the work mean, you guys? first, then we'll get to the inner child question.

What does doing the work mean, you guys?

Any guesses?

What does that mean?

Basically, it means if you and I are building a house together, literally from the ground up, and

we're going to dig a hole and we're going to lay the foundation and then we're going to frame

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