SC 164 - Loyalty In Gay Relationships - Jean Malpas
The Jayson Gaddis Podcast
Jayson Gaddis
4.7 • 999 Ratings
🗓️ 5 October 2017
⏱️ 53 minutes
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Summary
Loyalty is essential in a long-term partnership. Is loyalty different for gay couples? What honest conversations and boundaries are you both talking about? In this episode my guest Jean Malpas has some excellent tips for addressing these concerns and for giving your partner the benefit of the doubt.
SHOWNOTES
- Understanding cisgender and transgender [2:00]
- At what age do people start to identify with their gender? [4:00]
- An issue that comes up for any couple, gay or straight [8:00]
- What’s ok and what’s not ok in an open relationship? [11:00]
- What is the one essential factor in a successful relationship? [14:00]
- Is there a difference between gay & straight couple relationships? [15:00]
- Being mindful about areas of shame in relationship [21:00]
- What is “minority stress”? [22:00]
- Advice for couples who are struggling in relationship [33:00]
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | But I remember my family telling me, look, it's okay when I was a young teen, it's okay for you to be gay, |
| 0:06.0 | but don't be one of those queens. the Hey and welcome back to the relationship schools smart couple |
| 0:31.0 | podcast I'm your host, Jason Gatiss, and I am grateful to be here |
| 0:37.1 | with you right now. After rocking out an amazing embracing conflict weekend here in Boulder, Colorado. |
| 0:45.0 | Over 80 people came from 22 states and six countries to come embrace conflict with the relationship school and finally |
| 0:57.8 | get real and get educated there and man was it intense and so good? |
| 1:03.0 | And if you were there, thank you. |
| 1:05.0 | You rock. |
| 1:06.0 | That was amazing, right? |
| 1:08.0 | That was so fun. |
| 1:09.0 | And I appreciate all of you that came and pushed yourselves. |
| 1:14.0 | It was such an honor to meet you, to hang with you, to get real with you. |
| 1:19.0 | And I just so applaud, you know, your truth, you know, your willingness to be real and |
| 1:27.8 | vulnerable because as so many of you said, gosh, I can't believe people talk like this and I feel so seen and feel so |
| 1:36.2 | understood for the first time. |
| 1:38.3 | There were people there that said I have never felt this understood in my life. |
| 1:43.5 | And I've been married for 15 years |
| 1:45.6 | and it was the first time my partner got me |
| 1:47.4 | or something like that. |
| 1:48.2 | You know, I mean, there was some revolutionary moments. |
| 2:00.0 | There was a couple that was about to break up and they, I don't know where they are now, you guys know who you are. But they asked for help and I think I helped them and I think the group helped them so |
| 2:08.1 | We had |
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