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🗓️ 2 October 2018
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0:00.0 | This TED Talk features clinical sexologist and psychotherapist Christy Overstreet, recorded live at TEDx-Lavonia CC Library, 2017. |
0:12.3 | About six months into my career as a therapist, I was working at a drug and alcohol rehab facility. |
0:18.7 | I got a call from one of the nurses down the detox unit. She asked me to |
0:22.9 | come down and assess one of the new patients that had arrived earlier in the day. So I went down to the |
0:28.1 | unit and had the pleasure of me in hand, and the transmitter of female. And as her and I started |
0:33.4 | talking, she was sharing with me about what brought her into treatment. But I could hear this fear in her voice, and I could see this worrying her eyes. |
0:41.3 | And she began to tell me that she didn't fear coming into rehab and having to give up drugs and alcohol. |
0:47.1 | Her fear was that the doctors that were going to be treating her would not treat her as her female self. |
0:53.0 | She then told me about this ongoing pain that she has experienced her whole life of being |
0:57.3 | assigned male, but knowing she's female. |
0:59.7 | And what she meant by that is when she was born, the doctor held her up to her parents |
1:04.7 | and based on her genitalia said, it's a boy. |
1:08.4 | She always knew she wasn't a boy. |
1:13.9 | Many years passed and the feelings that she was feeling and holding all this in grew and grew and she knew she had to come out to her family. |
1:18.6 | And when she did, it didn't go over so well. Her parents said, absolutely not. You're not a girl. |
1:24.0 | This is not how we raised you. We don't know what you're thinking. Get out. |
1:29.1 | So Ann then found herself in the streets and in and out of homeless shelters, and it's here |
1:33.6 | where she started using drugs and alcohol to numb this pain she fell inside. She told me about |
1:40.1 | her journey of being in and out of hospitals and rehabs trying to get sober. And when she |
1:45.2 | did, the health care providers and doctors wouldn't use the correct female name or pronouns. |
1:50.3 | This caused her pain. You see, when I was studying to become a therapist, I wasn't taught how to |
1:56.4 | work with transgender patients. I had no idea this would be the patients I'd be working with. |
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