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Finding Joy in Your Home

What do you do when your home is BORING? – S2, E4

Finding Joy in Your Home

Jami Balmet

Religion & Spirituality, Homemaking, Living, Kids & Family, Christian, Mother, Healthy, Christianity, Joy, Homemaker, Wife

4.9654 Ratings

🗓️ 9 October 2022

⏱️ 41 minutes

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Summary

In this episode of our new series, The Productive Household, we are tackling the issues of boredom. I'm going to challenge your mindset when it comes to feelings of boredom, fulfillment, and a good days work within our homes. Let's dive in! Listen to the Podcast: You can find all the links and notes for this episode below! Right click here and save-as to download this episode to your computer. Links & Resources: Join our free community and join the discussion here: FindingJoyCommunity.com Our sponsor: For 50% off your first Care/of order, go to TakeCareOf.com and enter code HOME50 Our sponsor: Go to GreenChef.com/homemaking135 and use code homemaking135 to get $135 off across five boxes—and your first box ships free! Book recommendation: Eve in Exile Documentary based on the book Eve in Exile Throughout college as I was writing papers on Ancient Near Eastern History and learning how to read the Bible in the original Hebrew (yeah – I was a double major – History and Biblical Studies and loved every minute of it), it was easy to feel like I was spending my time on extremely worthwhile things. After college, I worked full time and had dreams of getting my masters degree (I still do for that matter) and it was easy to feel like I was contributing to my family by bringing in an income when we really needed it. Now? My days are spent changing poopy diapers, teaching math (often in with lots of tears), the endless cycle of meal prep, breaking up fights, teaching kindness, cleaning dishes, putting up a new load of laundry, folding that laundry, putting it away and starting all these processes over and over again. When my first 5 kids were little, I hit a wall at some point. I started feeling defeated and a bit overwhelmed by all the physical needs in my home and it was easy to NOT look forward to the next day of repeating it all over again. Somewhere along the line, I forgot the importance of what I do. And I gotta say, some days are just boring. So whether you find yourself battling tough and mundane days or boredom, I feel yeah. It’s easy to feel that way in our homes. Especially in a culture that doesn’t value what we do at home. We tend to boil our home tasks down to just: cleaning and meaningless cooking. But what if we changed the way we looked at our homes? And the work we do within In? I think a lot of us struggle with these feelings from time to time. But we don’t want to voice them because then maybe it will look like we are not “good” mothers or “good” homemakers or we are not grateful for all that God gives. I want to challenge your mindset.  Often, women will express that they want to go back to work because they don’t feel challenged at home. They want to do something worthwhile with their talents and their time and they feel like that isn’t happening at home. They want to do something with all their creativity and feel like the work they are doing is valuable. As I shared at the beginning of this new series, I think a big part of this is that we’ve moved all modes of productivity out of the home. Homes have becomes places that we primarily consume. And for all of humans history, until the past 70 years or so, homes have been the places in which we create and produce. Maybe the problem isn’t our homes, maybe it’s that things are too easy. So we feel bored. We are not challenge. Listen, women. We are creative. We are smart. We are fiercely smart. We are able to multitask and juggle hard things. But our modern homes don’t engage large parts of our brains. We balk at the dishes and cleaning toilets because we don’t feel challenged or fulfilled. One important caveat: Not everything in life is exciting or exhilarating. Often, God is asking us to find joy and be stratified in HIM through the boring and the mundane. But I also think we can look at our homes in a different light. The amazing book, Eve in Exile,

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Finding Joy in Your Home Podcast. I am your host, Jamie Valmay, and this is the podcast where we blend to deeply theological topics with thoroughly practical application, all for God's glory.

0:12.7

Hey, ladies, welcome back, season two episode number four. We are in our productive household series. And today we're talking about a topic

0:23.8

that comes up a lot. What do you do? How should you think when you find your home boring?

0:31.6

When you are feeling a bit listless within your home, when you feel like you're lacking direction, you just

0:40.4

feel a little bored, you feel like things are mundane, kind of however you want to describe it.

0:45.7

That is what we are addressing today. This is an important one. I will say, so this episode,

0:51.2

if you've been following along, this episode's coming out a little bit late.

0:58.3

Our family got hit with sickness hard this last week.

1:00.6

I am on day eight of being sick.

1:02.0

I got sick first.

1:04.9

I'm still like the kids have moved on.

1:06.6

Jason has mostly moved on.

1:08.4

The toddler is still whiny.

1:09.0

We still got it. It's clinging on a little bit.

1:10.7

And I have been, this is just like totally knocked me out.

1:14.4

And I think it's because, you know, I've got a newborn that I'm up in the middle of the night with still and breastfeeding.

1:20.1

And I don't know.

1:20.8

It just, this sickness hit me hard.

1:23.5

We were actually on our two-week road trip and it hit us right at the end, which is probably

1:27.7

also part of it.

1:28.4

I think we were all feeling run down and tired.

1:31.5

And so my point of saying this is, sorry that we're a little bit late on the episode,

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