Get it, the virtue!

Most women want their fiancee to get more involved than the wedding planning, but this

particular listener is like, he's overstepping boundaries.

His opinions are too much.

He's too much.

I need him to back the bleep off, and she doesn't know how she should handle the conversation.

Cassie's got the email.

Please read this email in the air because I'd love to hear from other brides and former

brides as well as grooms.

I need my fiancee to realize that he's being very abnormal and therefore the issues that

we are having are being caused by him.

I need him to realize that what I had expected and assumed would happen while planning

our wedding is the norm and that he is being unusual.

My fiancee and I got engaged about three months ago.

We were as happy as can be until two days after I said yes.

That's when we started talking about wedding plans.

Prior to our engagement, I would have ideas in my mind of what I'd want.

I knew that he would eventually propose, so sometimes I casually tell him my ideas

for the wedding.

And he never disagreed with any of it.

He had no opinions.

It was great and normal.

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