Hey, prime members, you can listen to the Daily Stoke podcast early and add free on Amazon music. Download the app today.

Welcome to the Daily Stoke. For each day, we read a short passage designed to help you cultivate the strength, insight, wisdom necessary for living good life.

Each one of these passages is based on the 2000-year-old philosophy that has guided some of history's greatest men and women. For more, you can visit us at DailyStoic.com.

What are we fighting about? Really? There's a great lyric in the bridge of the new Bruce Springsteen song, Tucson Chain.

We fought hard over nothing, he sings. We fought till nothing remained, and I carried that nothing for a long time.

Doesn't that just perfectly capture in such a sad and telling way many of our relationships and grudges? We turn nothing into something and then hold on to it like it's everything.

Then we wonder why we're unhappy. We wonder why we're lonely. We wonder where people we used to love have gone. We wonder where the good times went.

The answer we drove them away. We ground them into dust. Marcus Aurelius struggled with this too. Had a problem like we all do with anger and taking offense and getting into arguments and needing to prove people wrong.

If he hadn't, he never would have written this little reminder in meditations. Run down the list of those who felt intense anger at something, the most famous, the most unfortunate, the most hated, the most whatever.

Where is all that now? Smoke, dust, legend, or not even legend? Think of all the examples and how trivial the things we want so passionately are. It's heartbreaking. It's true. And all of us are guilty of it in our own way.

What are we fighting about? What do we so passionately need? Why do we so passionately need to be right? Why can't we just let things go? If only we could change.

Memento Mori, remember death. Remember you are mortal. Or as Marcus Aurelius said, you could leave life right now. Let that determine what you do and say and think.

I actually wear this reminder in a segment ring on my finger, one of the most ancient and I think meaningful forms of jewelry there is. I wear it on my right ring finger.

And we now make a Memento Mori, a segment ring in the daily stoke store. You can check it out at daily stoke.com slash store.

Hey, prime members, you can listen to the daily stoke early and add free on Amazon music. Download the Amazon music app today or you can listen early and add free with Wondering Plus in Apple podcasts.