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thanks for considering and now back to the show So when our oldest son, who is now 30 was seven years old, this true story,

because I'm in church, so I wouldn't make this up.

When he was seven years old, our standard babysitter,

you know how you have it like the go-to babysitter

that you know, she's there, you know,

and she's usually a woman, you know,

that's there all the time.

This young lady was our standard go-to babysitter and one

afternoon she ran over his arm with her Honda Accord in our driveway, right

over his arm. I know that was the proper response. Earlier when I shared that story

he was just like quiet I'm like the proper response is is yeah anyway so she ran

over his arm in our driveway so we're all running out there you know and? And the good, the silver lining is from that moment on,

Andrew had the upper hand in the relationship.

It's very difficult to say no to a child

when you ran over his arm in his own driveway with your Honda Accord.

You know, Andrew, it's time to come up, go upstairs and get ready for bed.

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