Week 3: Persevere in faith - Jacob
Pardon the Mess with Scarlet Hiltibidal - Christian Motherhood, Biblical Parenting, Raising Christian Kids
Scarlet Hiltibidal and Christian Parenting
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🗓️ 22 September 2025
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Summary
Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us. (Romans 5:3–5)
Jacob fought and wrestled and did things his own way his entire life: He grabbed his twin brother’s heel as he was being born and then stole that same brother’s birthright. He was so angry that he left town. Talk about sibling rivalry! Years later when Jacob decided to return home, he came across a mysterious man and wrestled him all night. Jacob refused to quit until he received a blessing. Little did he know the man he was wrestling with was God. God changed his name to Israel—meaning one who struggles with God.
Jacob was changed in that moment. He went from living life for himself to depending on God. He went from wrestling with God to clinging to him.
Faith isn’t always easy. Our kids will face struggles, and they will try to do things their own way! Toddlers and teenagers alike notoriously doubt their parents’ abilities to know what is best and right at times. There will also be times when they doubt God’s ability to know what is best, wrestle with their understanding of him, or even try to live independently of him.
Questions are a natural part of making faith your own. God welcomes our questions, our struggles, and even our doubts—they do not scare him! Instead, he meets us in them and draws us closer to him. As parents, we don’t have to be afraid of our kids’ questions either. It does us well to remember that faith is not linear and our kids will have many ups and downs as they journey through their lives of faith.
This week, let’s pray that our kids persevere in their faith, that they go to God to get answers to their questions when they inevitably have doubts, and that they surrender to him instead of fighting against him.
Jesus, I pray that ________ will lead a life of faith. Knowing there will be ups and downs and seasons of questions and doubts, I pray they will be confident going to you with all their feelings, questions and emotions. May they always remember that wrestling is worth it for a relationship with you. Amen.
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| 0:00.0 | Christian Parenting. |
| 0:03.0 | Hey friends, welcome back to Pardon the Mess. I've recorded this one like five times. |
| 0:18.5 | And so I hope this is going to be the one. And so I'm praying that Holy Spirit you would just show up through these few minutes and speak through me and speak to the people listening because this has been a really heavy couple weeks. And so I pray, Lord, that they will just feel you, hear you, and that you will do your thing through a little thing called a podcast where we want to honor and glorify you through these words, through your word, and through praying for our kids. But this week, we're going to pray through Jacob and Genesis. And we're going to pray about Jacob in Genesis. And we're going to pray about perseverance in faith for us and for our kids. But up front, a couple funny things and then some hard things. The first funny thing is that y'all, I went to the Auburn game this past weekend when I'm recording this. It was family weekend, got to see Ella, get my arms around her. She's doing so great. We went to a football game. And y'all, it was like sitting on the surface of the sun. It was 90-something degrees. And a couple things. One, I fell, I sure did fall. I was in the end zone |
| 1:12.3 | across from the student section on basically the top row, row 61. And so if you saw me, |
| 1:16.8 | I need the footage. And it's okay if you're laughing right now. It wasn't funny in the moment, |
| 1:20.6 | but I literally was getting dizzy going up so high and like questioning why I got the cheap |
| 1:25.8 | ticket and not, I don't know, an air-conditioned sweet ticket, but I fell and I'm okay, but I'm so glad that Ellen and Ron didn't see because they would have been cackling and my friends would have been cackling. And then the second thing is, y'all, I left the game. It was so hot and I don't know if that call makes me a fair weather fan, but I get so triggered by heat. I'm going to start having an anxiety attack. My friends know this. And it triggers a migraine. And so we got up there after my fall, start watching the eagle fly in. I watched the pregame band. I'm loving life. I can't believe I'm sitting next to my daughter who's at Auburn. And I look over at them and they said, you're leaving, aren't you? I'm like, I am, and I love you, and I'm leaving. And I'm so glad I did because I watched it in the air in the student center, and I was able to participate in the rest of the day because I wasn't flattened out with the migraine. And so kind of funny, kind of hard, but that was my weekend. And again, if you're listening to this, it was probably the last weekend. My time gets all messed up on these podcasts. |
| 2:20.9 | But on a more song, that was my weekend. And again, if you're listening to this, it was probably the last weekend. |
| 2:18.4 | My time gets all messed up on these podcasts. But on a more somber note, as we're, as I'm recording |
| 2:23.7 | this, we just came off of a really hard week with the death and the assassination of Charlie Kirk, |
| 2:28.6 | a Ukrainian girl being stabbed in Charlotte, a school shooting in Colorado. And I know if you're like |
| 2:33.9 | me, you feel so heavy. |
| 2:36.2 | It's like as a body of believers, like your heart just aches. And I felt the same way. I almost felt |
| 2:41.0 | sick. The whole week after the Camp Mystic Girls dies is just like you're aching in line with |
| 2:46.7 | these other parents. And we're aching as believers to say like, Lord, this feels dark and evil |
| 2:51.8 | and it feels scary. And all I can say to us is that we have hope in Jesus. And I know there's a lot |
| 2:57.2 | that could be said about this. But it makes me have, I don't know, even more motivation and fire to do |
| 3:03.9 | what we're doing here, to prioritize faith for us personally, but us as a family, and to pray |
| 3:09.3 | for our kids to say, like, Lord, no matter what's going on in the world, we put our hope in you. |
| 3:14.8 | This is the firm foundation in the midst of a world that is circling and floundering and really hard. |
| 3:21.2 | And so I pray that at some point this week that we will put our eyes to Jesus, |
| 3:26.1 | that we will get in our Bibles, that we will turn off our phones, and that we will just |
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