We Were Rich on Instagram, Broke in Real Life: MMS #3
Millionaire Mindsets
Xavier Miller
4.8 • 1.5K Ratings
🗓️ 17 July 2025
⏱️ 33 minutes
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Summary
He thought they were building an empire together, two creatives in love, chasing dreams and stacking income. But behind the matching content and luxury lifestyle was a dangerous truth: she was spending their future faster than they could earn it.
In this episode of Money, Mistakes & Secrets, we dive into the true story of a man torn between love and legacy. From YouTube checks and brand deals to $4,500/month apartments, Botox, and luxury overload, he watched their vision unravel as lifestyle creep took control.
Now, he’s asking the hard question: Do I stay and keep bleeding slowly? Or do I walk away before I lose everything I’ve worked for?
This story isn’t just about money, it’s about values, discipline, and the cost of misalignment in relationships.
Tap in for 5 powerful financial lessons, the real price of image-based living, and a brutal truth: not every love is built to last the journey to wealth.
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| 0:01.0 | Yo, yo, what's up, everybody? |
| 0:02.7 | Welcome back to the greatest show on Earth, the Millionet Mindsets Podcast. |
| 0:06.0 | I am your host, Xavier. |
| 0:07.4 | Today, I got another special editions of money, mistakes, and secrets. |
| 0:12.2 | This is going to be a really good episode because it's going to be applicable to a lot of people. |
| 0:17.1 | I get these kind of scenarios, questions to me, not just an email and DM, but in real life, I'm talking to people. This is kind of like a common conversation. So I feel like this would be, this, this is a really good story to touch on. I got a lot of them, but I picked this one for this episode specifically, because like I said, for the reasons that this is applicable to a lot of people. This is a real conversation that many people have. And it's real game and value from this story. But before we get started, as usual, I would like to advise all the listeners, to watch us, to please hit that like button, subscribe, leave us a five-star rate and review, give us some feedback, leave us a comment. We really appreciate those things. We read all of it so if y'allall could do that we really appreciate it and um let's get right to the show and this is going to be |
| 0:58.7 | like i said this is a really good one i haven't been able to drop the last couple of weeks i've been |
| 1:02.5 | traveling working a lot doing a lot of things content wise i got some big things coming some big news |
| 1:08.0 | that's going to be um it's going to be coming out pretty soon. |
| 1:11.6 | So I'm pretty excited about that. |
| 1:13.4 | But let's get right into today's episode. |
| 1:16.8 | So this is the message I got. |
| 1:19.7 | And like I said, as usual, y'all know I'm not going to say any names. |
| 1:22.6 | If I do say a name, I'm going to change it for the real names to just keep the integrity of and keep the privacy of the person that saved me the message obviously. So here we go. So it says me and my |
| 1:34.0 | girl have known each other since we were 15. We're 29 now. We live together. We're both |
| 1:39.0 | creatives and hustlers. She's killing it on social media. I've been in cybersecurity for six years and I also invest in real estate. On paper, we look like a power couple, but in reality, our values with money are worlds apart. She brings in money. She brings in great money, but she spends it just as fast. Shoes, designer clothes, bags, flights, Botox, facials, new cars, it's always something. |
| 2:04.6 | Everything is luxury. |
| 2:05.7 | Nothing has a thought of longevity. |
| 2:08.5 | At first, I enjoyed it. |
| 2:10.0 | I'm not going to lie. |
| 2:11.2 | When she come home with 1,200 worth of new pieces for a trip, or we wake up in the high-rise |
| 2:16.7 | with city views after dropping |
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