This one is called

We were both the main girlfriend

Oh my gosh

Hey ladies

First of all I want to say that I love your pod

You are all beautiful and extremely funny

And I pray that God grants you Many more milestones on this pod journey and beyond. Amen. We really needed to hear that after. After what we just said. Thank you. I'm writing in to share a dilemma that still weighs heavily on me. I was in a relationship with a Nigerian man for every year. My dear. My dear.

So sorry.

So sorry.

Sorry for the laugh.

Someone I truly believed I had a future with.

He presented as an intentional, emotionally available and consistent.

I thought I'd finally found someone serious about love, someone I could grow with.

During our relationship, I'd naturally took on serious about love, someone I could grow with. During our relationship,

I naturally took on the emotionally supportive role. It's who I am. I showed up for him

wholeheartedly, especially during one of the hardest seasons of his life when he lost his father.

I was by his side through grief, thinking I was standing by the man I'd build my life with.

Then one day, everything changed. I was contacted by a woman who introduced herself as his ex, except she thought she was

still his girlfriend. She had no idea I existed. We compared timelines and realized he had been in a relationship

with both of us at the same time. This wasn't something clinging, this is, this wasn't someone clinging to the past.

She was under the impression that she was still very much in his life.

When I confronted him, his first results, when I confronted him, his first response was to

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