We are recording a late one.

So we're going to keep this one a little bit short and sweet.

But we've got some dilemmas that we're going to read through.

I'm telling you short and sweet.

But the way people are writing dilemmas nowadays,

you lot are really, they're really packing every single

fact into these dilemmas so yeah anyway we'll start with this one and also sorry the dilemmas

i was reading all of them all had their names and details guys yeah yeah please please please let's be

guided yeah don't be showing your details online yeah the thing the thing is already the thing is

already anonymous so don't put your yeah don't need to be your name just Just go straight into it. So I'm going to try... I think I've bleaked out with most of the name, so anyway, we'll just jump straight into it. I'm 24 years old, and I've been married for about a year now. Before getting married, I made it clear to my husband that I would really love for us to live alone as a couple, just for the sake of building our bond and enjoying some privacy.

But he's been living with his three siblings and a family friend long before we even met.

And he's never really experienced living alone.

I, on the other hand, am the last born in my family. I've always valued my space and have only ever lived with my mom and two

sisters. Even when I was in school I stayed alone because I love my privacy. Now that we're

married and we're living in this shared home, it doesn't feel like I'm

married. It feels like I just moved into a hostel. It's been a year and I'm still struggling to

adjust. To be fair, his siblings aren't giving me direct problems, but sometimes the energy is off and I feel out of

place recently one of his siblings girlfriends has also moved in how many people in this house

oh my ha i'm confused all anyway recently one of his siblings girlfriends also moved in, making the house feel even more crowded.

I've tried to express how I feel, but my husband always brushes it off.

He tells me I'm not accommodating and insists he can't leave his siblings because the house would feel too quiet or boring without them.

At this point, I'm exhausted. I don't feel seen or considered. If he's not willing to get us a

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