We listen and we don't judge.

Have you heard about this social media trend in which couples make a video and they say in unison, we listen and we don't judge.

And then they proceed to reveal secrets they've kept from each other.

Little things they've said, they've done, they've felt that they haven't shared before.

They haven't wanted the other person to know, but now

it all comes out. And sometimes it's just lighthearted little things like, hey, honey, every

night when you're getting ready for bed, I go and sneak an extra bowl of ice cream. Or when I buy

the kids meal, I don't give the children the French fries. I keep the fries for myself.

Or the outfit I bought last month,

it actually was a little more expensive than I said it was going to be. Or years ago,

you asked me what I thought about that certain dress you were wearing and I said I liked it,

but I really don't. You know, so sometimes it's little things, but many times bigger matters come out.

Like, I sometimes fake having a headache

because I don't want to have to talk to you. Or I pretend I need to go to the bathroom or to the

basement to fix something because I'm just overwhelmed with the kids and I just want to leave you

to deal with the chaos. Sometimes I pretend not to hear you when you ask for help with something.

Sometimes I read your journal. That even came out.

Here's one. Somebody said, I turn off the router at home sometimes so that you'll spend less time

online and more time with me. Now, I'm fascinated by this. We listen and we don't judge culture.

It claims to be promoting honesty and healthy

relationships and, you know, you're telling your beloved everything about you, even these

hidden faults and things you've done and you're doing it in a safe space where your beloved

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