We Finally Address The Adoption Comments…
He Said, She Said
Staying Relevant Productions
4.3 • 888 Ratings
🗓️ 18 February 2026
⏱️ 53 minutes
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Summary
Louise has a foot fetish fan club?! Apparently so. It also reminded her of the time Lily Allen tweeted about her back when she was on Made in Chelsea… and let’s just say Louise was not pleased.
Then we turn to Molly-Mae, reflecting on her announcement of her second baby. We share our thoughts on navigating pregnancy and public life, and the difference in how Ryan and Louise experience sharing personal news in the spotlight. Louise opens up about how emotionally challenging it was to come to terms with her changing body, shifting identity within the world of social media.
We also address the adoption comments we’ve received, explaining why it’s not the path we’ve chosen right now and why that feels right for us.
And we end our conversation discussing declining birth rates and why blaming women…looking at you, Steven Bartlett…isn’t helping. Louise shares how her work is actively challenging outdated ideas, and Ryan reflects on why it’s so important for future generations.
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(00:00) Coming up on this episode…
(00:30) Louise’s secret foot fan club exposed
(02:45) Why did Lily Allen tweet about Louise?!
(04:30) Why Louise is mortified by her dad
(09:35) The fear of becoming embarrassing parents to Leo
(10:40) What gives Louise the ick about Ryan…
(16:30) Louise’s oral hygiene ick
(18:22) Our honest thoughts on Molly-Mae’s pregnancy
(26:30) Why Louise struggled with how she looked while pregnant
(29:45) Navigating pregnancy in the spotlight
(32:30) Why we’ve chosen not to adopt right now
(36:59) Our reaction to Steven Bartlett’s birth rate conversation
(43:46) Andrew Tate and the misogyny debate
(45:30) Louise’s maternity commissioner petition
(51:45) Why Ryan is so proud of the impact Louise is making
(52:20) Final thoughts
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| 0:00.0 | What are we talking about this episode, Ryan? |
| 0:01.6 | You tell me. |
| 0:02.1 | It's really juicy this week. |
| 0:03.5 | We've got foot fetishes, Lily Allen accusing me of taking drugs. |
| 0:06.9 | What? |
| 0:07.7 | Our thoughts on Molly May having her second baby. |
| 0:10.1 | Ryan's now a big fan, which is hilarious. |
| 0:11.8 | We talk about your first encounter, meeting her. |
| 0:13.5 | We do. |
| 0:14.0 | Stephen Bartlett. |
| 0:16.0 | Andrew Tate. |
| 0:16.6 | I got some things to say about him. |
| 0:18.3 | Yeah, so do I. |
| 0:19.0 | Oh, my God. We're also talking about why we've chosen to not do adoption. Something that actually a lot of people have recommended for us. Well, in the words of Louis Thompson, let's get into it. Where do you want to start with your weird feet? Oh, my God, my feet. No, weird feet. I've got beautiful feet. You do have nice feet, yeah. I don't know you had a thousand photos on what did you call it Wikipedia. |
| 0:37.8 | Wiki feet. No, weird feet. I've got beautiful feet. You do have nice feet, yeah. I don't know you had a thousand photos on, what did you call it, Wikipedia? |
| 0:40.7 | Wiki feed. |
| 0:41.4 | So there's a platform online called WikiFeed. |
| 0:46.4 | It's like the Wikipedia for feet. |
| 0:48.5 | And strange men, maybe some women, upload photographs of strangers or like celebrities' feet. I didn't know about this until I was at a dinner party maybe six months ago and someone told me that I've got an enormous fan club, fan club. And then I had a little look and there's over a thousand pictures on there of me. How have they managed to get a thousand pictures of your feet? Isn't that bizarre? So they've taken them from my Instagram stories. What? I didn't realize when I was holding like bowls of cheer pudding and acci balls of breakfast in the morning that my feet were bare in the background. This is just reminding me. It's like every single photo. I've got a DM this week from a bloke who said, I wish you'd, I wish you would sell your sweaty gym socks. |
| 1:28.9 | I'm looking at that. I'm like, that is absurd, mate. There's also a part of me that's like, how much would you pay? Well, we've always jokes about this, that Ryan's got a huge gay following and that you should just get your butt cheeks out on OnlyFast. Oh, mate. How much money could I make for that? |
| 1:43.8 | But like you're the kind of person |
| 1:45.0 | that actually would do it for cash. |
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