And how to respond to a girl that you dated a long time ago who sent a picture of a moment of you both from your past together?

So the, if you study, obviously, get your ex-back type of stuff, that's one of the things that you will come across is that you want to elicit good emotions in the previous partner. And so

women understand us instinctively way better than guys do. And so she's sent in a nice moment because

she wants him to remember the feelings that they shared in that particular moment. Typically because

she's thinking of him and she's dipping her

toe into water, it's like throwing a little bait in the water and see if you get a little nibbles.

In other words, is he still interested? Because he could text back and go, hey, great to hear

from you. I hope you're doing well. My girlfriend and I are doing great. The wife and I are just

had her second baby or whatever. he texts back something that says hey it's great to hear from me that

was really great it was a great moment in the beach we were so in love we had so much fun it was great

how you doing i'd love to see you you you could go like that oh we should talk and catch up

or he could just ghost you and leave you

hanging but the bottom line is that she's trying to take you back to whatever the motions

meant for her and that she's probably trying to elicit in you fishing to see if you're

potentially still interested she maybe one be, one last thing,

she may be looking to dip from the guy that she's with,

or maybe it's not going well with the guy that she's with.

And she's just trying to see if maybe she can monkey branch back to you.

I think when you definitely, when you see pictures,

like you're going to your phone.

Out of the blue, sent another. Yeah, so you're definitely through your phone. And X out of the blue, send in a memory.

Yeah, certain X's, yes.

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