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hot pursuit by AsianBossGirl

we broke up

hot pursuit by AsianBossGirl

Emily, Madelyn, Jen

Relationships, Society & Culture, Personal Journals

4.71.6K Ratings

🗓️ 18 November 2025

⏱️ 43 minutes

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Summary

sharing our past failed friendships, why they didn’t work, how we broke up, holding ourselves accountable, and what we could have done better. 0:00 bff means forever right? 4:40 when you have different expectations 6:52 when you’re ghosted 9:10 when you ghosted them 13:20 when it’s a slow fade 15:09 when you were the problem 23:13 the one that got away 29:40 are we bitter? 32:22 what would you say to them today? 35:04 how it affects other friendships 40:17 the heart longs for forever CONNECT WITH US Connect with us @thehotpursuitpod on Instagram/TikTok/Youtube.  Email us at hello@thehotpursuitpod.com.  Learn more at thehotpursuitpod.com. THE HOT PURSUIT PODCAST Hosted and written by: Jennifer Han, Emily Lin, and Madelyn Ong Produced by: Hot Pursuit Media and AsianBossGirl Edited by: Josh Jang Theme song: Shawn Halim Graphic art: Kelsey Cordutsky ig: @kcord0912 Motion graphics: Matt Ebling ig: @matt_ebling Special thanks: Travis Morningstar, Melody Cheng, Helen Wu Wang, Janet Wang, Josh Jang  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hello and welcome back to

0:11.6

A podcast about creating conversations or nothing is off limits.

0:16.9

This podcast is produced by Asian Boss Girl.

0:19.5

I'm M. I'm the older sister you've always wanted.

0:22.6

I'm Jen, the cheeseball in your snack drawer.

0:25.7

And I'm Madeline, your girl who thinks everything really is that deed.

0:29.7

So do you ever see their name show up on your Instagram and your heart drops to the bottom of your chest.

0:38.1

Do you still have their location?

0:41.4

Do you ever see old photographs and cards from them and you read their words?

0:46.0

And you were like, I thought you meant forever.

0:48.8

Does your iPhone ever create a slideshow of you two that it just presents you on a random Tuesday morning and

0:57.5

you have to watch it do you still think about them more than you would like to admit who are we

1:02.1

talking about it's not a boy oh it's your best friend oh oh you mean ex best friend oh yeah

1:09.8

an ex bestie oh no i'm sweating already Oh. You mean ex-best friend? Oh, yeah. Oh.

1:12.1

An ex-bestie.

1:13.4

Oh, no.

1:14.2

I'm sweating already. That's right.

1:17.2

We're talking about friendship breakups today.

1:21.5

The worst kind of breakup.

1:22.9

Honestly, the type of breakups that I think about more than I think about some of the boy

1:26.3

breakups, really.

1:27.4

For sure. They're awful. I them yeah why are they why are they

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