fighting with you is fun!

hot pursuit by AsianBossGirl

Emily, Madelyn, Jen

Relationships, Society & Culture, Personal Journals

4.7 • 1.6K Ratings

🗓️ 11 November 2025

⏱️ 45 minutes

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Summary

conflict within friendships can make or break the longevity of your relationship. hot pursuit shares lessons learned, growth, & what skills have been developed by fighting with each other! 0:00 omg is that my lip gloss?! 2:14 confessing our attachment styles 10:30 how do we view conflict today? 15:12 our fighting styles yikes 21:12 a jen-mads fight 27:04 an em-mads fight 34:23 fights that end poorly 39:26 aftercare is essential CONNECT WITH US Connect with us @thehotpursuitpod on Instagram/TikTok/Youtube. Email us at hello@thehotpursuitpod.com. Learn more at thehotpursuitpod.com. THE HOT PURSUIT PODCAST Hosted and written by: Jennifer Han, Emily Lin, and Madelyn Ong Produced by: Hot Pursuit Media and AsianBossGirl Edited by: Josh Jang Theme song: Shawn Halim Graphic art: Kelsey Cordutsky ig: @kcord0912 Motion graphics: Matt Ebling ig: @matt_ebling Special thanks: Travis Morningstar, Melody Cheng, Helen Wu Wang, Janet Wang, Josh Jang Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Hello and welcome back to hot pursuit, a podcast about creating conversations where nothing is off limits.
0:19.0	This podcast is produced by Asian Boss Girl.
0:22.0	I'm M, the older sister you've always wanted.
0:24.8	I'm Jen, the cheeseball in your snack drawer.
0:27.7	And I'm Madeline, your girl who thinks everything really is that deep.
0:32.2	Madeline, I love your lip color.
0:34.1	Where'd you get it?
0:35.1	I got it from your drawer.
0:36.7	From my drawer?
0:39.1	Yeah. From her drawer.
0:46.0	That's disgusting. What? I wish you would have asked. Like, I hate sharing lip stuff.
0:51.2	Oh, because of the, oh my God. It's disgusting. Yeah, she's mentioned that before. Oh. Yeah. Were you not listening? Oh my God. Well, I just let me...
0:54.5	I said, like, you could use whatever you wanted, but like, not the lip stuff.
1:00.0	Germs are saying.
1:00.3	Because that's actually really gross.
1:01.5	I didn't hear that.
1:02.0	I'm so sorry.
1:03.0	I didn't hear that part.
1:05.4	Today we're talking about fighting with friends.
1:09.6	Was that so scary?
1:14.8	Annoyance and conflict is the cost of intimacy and being close with people.
1:20.2	And so we know between the three of us that fighting is inevitable and it's uncomfortable,
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