Was He Rude For Refusing To Take His Shoes Off When Entering Their Home?
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🗓️ 31 January 2025
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| 0:00.0 | The Bird Show. Look, you walk into their house, their customs, right? It's only respectful to pay attention to those, but in this case, maybe not. |
| 0:08.0 | So I have a friend who is South Asian, and he grew up in America, but his family grew up in India. |
| 0:14.4 | And the other day, they had a white American friend over, and part of the customs of a lot of South Asian and honestly Asian homes as well. |
| 0:22.4 | And even here in the U.S., I do this in my home, but not for the same reasons, is you take off your |
| 0:27.1 | shoes when you enter the house. |
| 0:29.5 | And for me, it's a germ thing, but in some countries, it shows the host a sign of respect |
| 0:35.9 | that you're not going to drag dirt into their home and even |
| 0:38.9 | extend sometimes to their ancestors showing their ancestors respect by not sullying the home |
| 0:44.6 | with dirt heavy metals chemicals from your shoes just quickly before you go on there just here |
| 0:50.3 | in our own country do you expect people to take their shoes off when they enter your home |
| 0:53.5 | for me no but i i've just never really paid much attention to it, mainly because |
| 0:58.0 | I'm not, I don't really have many people out over, it's just me and my cats. |
| 1:01.8 | Yes, only because I have a light carpet. Yeah? Mm-hmm. No. Me neither. Okay. |
| 1:06.2 | And it's interesting that you say cats, because this family does have a cat. |
| 1:11.6 | And so the American friend, when they came over, was like, I don't want to take off my shoes. |
| 1:16.9 | And my friend was like, okay, well, it's kind of our house rule. |
| 1:19.7 | You know, you can't come. |
| 1:20.8 | Nobody gets to wear their shoes in. |
| 1:22.3 | Not grandma. |
| 1:23.7 | You know, if the president showed up, you take your shoes off in our house. |
| 1:27.6 | And his, the American friend, white Americans friend take was, one, I wasn't prepared to show my socks. |
| 1:33.8 | That's weird. It feels very intimate. I have a hole in one. Like, it just feels weird to walk barefoot. |
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