The Bert show.

All right, let's get to Tanya here, who really feels like she's doing some protecting here.

Many might think she's meddling in this family, but she wanted some answers to see if the dude that she is

is nannying for is messing around on his wife.

Hey Tanya, hi, good morning.

Good morning.

Okay, so let me save you some time and let you know that we got some results for you. But for those that didn't hear this yesterday, why don't you explain exactly what you're seeing in the house and why you think this is your business? Well, I mean, I've been adding for, you know, this family, great family,

lovely, you know, she's amazing, mom is amazing, the kids are incredible, but dad never really

seems to be involved, he never really wants to partake in what the family is doing in the

family dynamic and I've seen him kind of leave when he gets a phone call, maybe getting upset with someone or the phone that might, it kind of reminds me of when a couple is fighting and I don't know it just everything just rubs me the wrong way and

I'm I'm wondering if he is doing something on you know with someone else and if I should tell mom I don't know okay so

what Abby with the skeptical I don't know I just feel like this is such a lose lose situation for you that I just

feel like there's got to be some kind of ulterior motive here and I'm trying to

figure out what it is I don't know if you're trying to break up the family, if you just

really want to get rid of the stat, like I'm trying to figure out what the motivation is here.

It feels a little like savior complex to me. Save your complex. Okay well that's the more positive spin.

And like you want to come in you want to swoop in and you want to save her or whatever but

and I mean I know this sounds so harsh but you do have to know your place as far as when you're

intervening.

And I feel in this instance, like your Savior complex is getting the best of you because not everybody needs to be saved.

So you have a little bit of that in there, Tanya?

Yeah, I mean, I'm not trying to save anyone but you know I don't know I don't know I don't know I don't know you guys

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