The virtue. She and her husband have gone through a rocky couple of years, right? They went

to counseling. They thought they were through it. And now she thinks that he might be

messing around and she wants our help tonight to do catch a cheater or the roses, which

we'll get to here in just one second. I'm really curious. So because I really think I admire

these couples that say they've gone through a rocky couple of years, right? Like at what

point do you say like, you know what? This is just way too difficult for this long amount

of time.

I think it depends on your level of commitment. Like if you're just dating somebody and

it's been a couple of years where things have just not been good. Like you got nothing

tying you two to each other. So get out. I think it's a little bit different if you're

married. And have kids. And you have kids. The thing that I've heard from therapist because

I've asked this question before because I hear a lot of people who want to fight for these

terrible relationships. Relationships are supposed to enrich your life. And if it's

getting to the point where there's no potential for that, get out. The potential right there

I think is the key word. Because you should be happy in the now. Yes. And it's I'm also

a firm believer like relationships while they're while they they they are work. You work

kind of making a they should never feel like a job. I got friends that'll do this for

years. I mean, still doing it. And I think it seems as if for the most part they almost

have to hit like rock bottom. Yeah. In order to finally leave. But I've just I've never

had that problem. And I'm trying to figure out exactly how many years that me and my

acts were really struggling in our marriage before we decided to tap out. And I can't

even look back and remember how long it was. But we did the same thing. Let a lot of

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