get it the virtue. Her husband has always said he has zero tolerance for cheating. He hates

it zero tolerance. And now she's starting to think that maybe he's the one cheating

and wanted our help or once our help I should say to try to get to the truth here with

to catch a cheater or the rose.

Hi, virtue. I'm asking for your help. My husband and I have been married for four years.

This is his second marriage, my first. His wife before me cheated on him and that is

why it ended. From what I understand the day he found out about her fair is the same

day that he contacted a divorce attorney and never looked back. He said he didn't need

to know anything more than the fact that it happened. He didn't want to hear an apology,

begging or reasons why. He said he has zero tolerance for cheating. So when we started

dating, he told me that upfront. He literally told me on our first date. In fact, he also

told me from our very first date that he wouldn't be okay with me seeing anyone else from

the very beginning. Oh God. So they just meet and he's like, you're not allowed to date

anybody from this point forward. If we're going to see it. Okay. And she married this dude.

Yeah. That's controlled. Yeah. That's right. That'd be a major red flag. He said that if

I wanted to date him, then he would need to be the only one right from the start. I really

liked him. So I was fine with this. For the first year or two of our relationship, he

seemed very paranoid. It was as if he was expecting me to cheat. After a few years,

I think he trusted me. Given his paranoia and how vocal he is about his intolerance for

cheating, you would think that he would be the most faithful man in the world. I assume

he had been for years. However, recently something has changed. I'm pretty convinced that

he's seeing someone else. The vibe in our marriage has been off for a while. Plus all the typical

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