All right, so to catch a cheater war of the roses, everything was just fine.

He was doing all of the finances, everything was fine.

She didn't understand the finances, and she was like, you know what, I'd like to understand

them a little bit better.

So she starts going over the finances, now she's got questions about his loyalty in their

marriage.

Kristen's got the email.

For a long time, I had taken a back seat when it came to managing or even understanding

our finances.

My husband has always understood that stuff better, so he has always taken the responsibility.

I always trusted that the bills were paid, our savings were growing, etc.

I had no reason to trust him, I had no reason not to trust him with that.

However, I recently came across a list of all of our counts with the usernames and passwords.

I've always been a bit embarrassed that I was clueless about these type of things, so

I figured I would just take a few minutes and log into our accounts for a better understanding.

I logged into one of our joint credit card accounts, one which we both frequently use

for various expenses.

As I skimmed through the list of charges, certain charges caught my attention.

There were multiple expenses for some pretty upscale restaurants, places neither of us had

been to.

Now, it's entirely possible that these were expenses from business lunches.

My husband often meets with clients and colleagues over meals.

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