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Wretched Radio with Todd Friel

WANT TO KNOW HOW TO STOP FIGHTING? THERE’S ONE ESSENTIAL FOR TRUE PEACE

Wretched Radio with Todd Friel

Fortis Institute

Religion, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

4.93.1K Ratings

🗓️ 4 March 2025

⏱️ 55 minutes

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Summary

Segment 1:



• Peacemaking vs. Reconciliation: Reconciliation is deeper than simply making peace—it’s about restoring relationships.



• Matthew 5 & James 4: Conflict stems from desires within, not just others' actions. True reconciliation begins with self-examination.



• Key Takeaway: Biblical reconciliation requires heart transformation, not just resolving the issue on the surface.



Segment 2:



• Idolatrous Desires: Conflict often arises from selfish desires, like control or approval, that become idols in our lives.



• Righteous Anger vs. Sinful Anger: Anger rooted in selfishness can lead to sin, even if initially justified.



• Key Takeaway: Real peace comes from recognizing and surrendering our idolatrous desires to Christ, rather than managing conflict externally.



Segment 3:



• Ongoing Repentance: Repentance is a continual process for Christians—not just a one-time event.



• Godly vs. Worldly Sorrow: True repentance leads to change; worldly sorrow focuses on consequences, not transformation.



• Key Takeaway: Genuine repentance involves a heart change, turning toward righteousness, and repairing relationships.



Segment 4:



• Forgiveness vs. Moving On: True reconciliation requires forgiveness, not just moving past the conflict.



• Attitudinal and Transactional Forgiveness: We must be ready to forgive, even without repentance, and offer full forgiveness when repentance occurs.



• Key Takeaway: Biblical forgiveness mirrors God’s forgiveness toward us—ready to forgive and restore, no matter the offense.



Watch 'Conflict' with Todd Friel and Dr. John Street on Fortis+ https://fortisplus.org/tabs/discover/video-series/31082







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Transcript

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0:00.0

Wretched Radio begins in three, two, one.

0:07.0

Your first mission is to keep yourself happy.

0:10.0

It's living for self that is so exhausting and frustrating

0:14.0

because you were made to live for him.

0:18.0

So when you begin to please him, you begin to thrive. It's not a burden. It's not a duty.

0:24.2

It's a joy. I come alive. This is what I was made for. It's time for Rretched Radio with Todd Friel.

0:30.3

Conflicts. It's never your fault, right? This is Rretched Radio. Hey, I'm Jimmy Hicks, not Todd Friel.

0:37.0

No, we're doing something a bit different again today.

0:40.7

We're going to be stepping into one of our resources, conflict.

0:44.3

With Todd and Dr. John Street.

0:46.7

We're going to dig into what really causes conflict in our lives.

0:50.5

And here's a bit of a spoiler alert.

0:52.2

It's probably not what you think.

0:54.1

Chances are very good in your life. You have got somebody... lives. And here's a bit of a spoiler alert. It's probably not what you think.

1:00.5

Chances are very good in your life. You have got somebody at this moment with whom you have something of a headbutting issue going on, a difference of opinion. We are going to take a look

1:06.2

and see what the Bible says about your conflicts. And I believe that everybody is going to see an experience,

1:13.8

wow, that book really cuts to the heart of the issue

1:17.9

and gets to it.

1:19.3

And so what you're going to be seeing right now

1:22.1

is basically what I just saw the other day.

1:24.2

I sat in on a seminar that you delivered at our church on peacemaking.

1:29.9

Correct? Isn't that what the subject was about? Well, no. It's really about reconciliation.

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