Want To Be Wanted But Don’t Want To Want #669

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Dr Corey and Pam Allan

Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Religion & Spirituality, Relationships, Christianity

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🗓️ 27 March 2024

⏱️ 28 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, we dive into how marriage is simple but difficult, and emphasize the importance of honest conversations.

Then we move into the main focus of the episode -- an email from a husband who feels that his wife wants to be wanted but doesn't want to want.

There are complexities of desire discrepancy and sexual frustration in every marriage. So waht do we do with them?

We also touch on the vulnerability and shame associated with discussing sexuality and the deeper parts of our lives.

Takeaways

Marriage is simple but difficult, and it requires honest conversations and a willingness to face challenges.
Desire discrepancy and sexual frustration can be common issues in marriage, and it's important to have open and honest communication about these topics.
Vulnerability and shame can play a role in the dynamics of marriage, and it's important to create a safe space for discussing sensitive topics.
Resilience and overcoming resentment in marriage require facing negative thoughts and feelings, addressing traumas, and implementing boundaries.
On the Xtended Version ...

There are 2 common attitudes people approach marriage and relationships with - an attitude of entitlement or an attitude of exposure.

We explore them and how they play out in life today.

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0:00.0	So Pam do you realize if you look at the the entirety of a calendar year what are the
0:11.3	two most popular weekends that doctors perform vasectomies.
0:17.0	You have any ideas or guesses?
0:21.0	This would be a procedure that's done on a Thursday or a Friday, but what would be the two most popular?
0:28.0	Before a long weekend, before a Labor Day weekend, maybe?
0:32.0	Okay, well actually, I mean, this is just some of the,
0:37.0	I've heard this from several different guys.
0:39.0	They have mentioned this from their doctors,
0:41.0	that the two most prominent times are the first weekend of March. mentioned this
0:43.0	the two most prominent times are the first weekend of March Madness that just happened
0:46.0	genius and the weekend of the Masters tournament.
0:50.0	Yeah just lay around and watch sports all weekend.
0:52.0	Because you've got two big events that are four days tournament. Yeah just lay around and watch sports all weekend.
0:52.6	Because you've got two big events that are four days long of a lot of, you don't have to
0:56.8	get up and move very often and you just kind of have lots of entertainment on TV.
1:00.4	So if you've missed this window to get it done fellas and you're planning on doing a vasectomy the
1:05.3	Masters is right around the corner.
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1:17.3	goes away and what's the timeline now baby? We're just talking about this.
1:21.0	Well yeah I don yeah, 19 days.
1:25.0	Just over a couple of weeks.
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