Waking Up from the Victim Trance
Tara Brach
Tara Brach
4.8 • 11.4K Ratings
🗓️ 11 June 2026
⏱️ 62 minutes
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Summary
Most of us know what it is like to feel emotionally reactive—hurt by others, overwhelmed by circumstances, horrified by what is unfolding in our world, betrayed by our own body, hijacked by our mind. In those moments, we can become identified with a small and vulnerable self—a victim self who feels at the mercy of forces larger than us.
In this talk, we will examine how we become trapped in this often unconscious pattern, personally and collectively, and how it leaves us fearful, isolated, and cut off from our natural power. We'll then explore how the wings of mindfulness and compassion can carry us beyond that trance, revealing the freedom, love, and aliveness of our true nature.
Our introduction music is from "Opening" by Adrienne Torf, © 2025 ABT Music
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome, friends, to the Tara Brock podcast. I'm so glad you're here. |
| 0:11.3 | Each week, I share teachings and guided meditations to help us awaken our hearts and bring healing |
| 0:17.8 | to our world. |
| 0:24.4 | You can learn more or support this offering by visiting tarabrock.com, |
| 0:27.1 | where you can also join our email list. |
| 0:32.5 | Now, let's explore together |
| 0:34.7 | the many ways we can live |
| 0:36.7 | from the love and presence that's our deepest essence. |
| 0:45.3 | Namaste, welcome, friends. |
| 0:55.0 | So I'll begin with a short story. Namaste, welcome friends. |
| 1:13.5 | So I'll begin with a short story and this is of a nun who joins an abbey and takes this |
| 1:19.5 | bow of silence. |
| 1:21.9 | And then after the first 10 years the mother superior calls her in and says, do you have anything to say? And the nun replies, |
| 1:31.4 | food bad. So another 10 years passed, and the nun again has an opportunity to voice her thoughts. |
| 1:39.8 | And she says, bed hard. Another 10 years go by. And again, she's called in before Mother Superior. |
| 1:49.9 | And when she's asked if she has anything to say, she responds, I quit. And the Mother Superior says, |
| 1:56.2 | well, it doesn't surprise me a bit. You've done nothing but complain ever since you got here. |
| 2:03.6 | So I begin here because most of us have an inner complainer and it's so ongoing and familiar |
| 2:13.6 | that we might not even notice how much we have this habit of fixating on what |
| 2:18.9 | is going wrong, you know, how the world's not cooperating. |
| 2:23.7 | And when the complaints are charged, there's a felt sense of being a victim of others or |
| 2:31.7 | of circumstance of life. |
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